A book by Margaret Chiavini

It's your funeral.
party.

Yes, this is a book about planning your own funeral. But it isn't really about death. It's about living a great life, and leaving a great legacy, on purpose.

So why let someone else plan it?

Most of us leave it for later. Then the hardest week of a family's life turns into a scramble of logistics and guesswork.

Margaret's idea is simple. If it's your party, you get to design it: the feel, the room, the send-off that sounds like you.

Pick the soundtrack.

The songs that carried you through. Choose the ones that will get the room smiling, singing along, and maybe even dancing.

Decide who's in the room.

Who speaks, who hosts, who gets the front row. Give every person a role so the day feels like you and no one has to guess.

Choose the words.

The stories, the readings, the eulogy itself. Think about what you hope they'll say about you.

Then read it back.

Your road map to joy and happiness starts with how you want to be remembered. The gap between that eulogy and this week is your to-do list.

Plan the ending once. Live on purpose after.

Clarity about later changes what you do today. Optimism, gratitude, and responsibility stop being ideas and start being how you spend your week.

Margaret has been to more than 50 funerals.

She's watched a sudden loss leave families buried in paperwork and guesses. And she's seen how beautiful a farewell can be when someone took the time to plan it.

That contrast was her wake-up call. Not about death, but about life.

Left to guessworkPlanned with love

Could your family find these tomorrow?

Tick what's already handled. Be honest, nobody's watching.

Things your family would need

0 of 6. That's exactly why this book exists.

Book cover of It's Your Party by Margaret Chiavini

Design a celebration of life, and a life worth celebrating.

Don't wait. It's your party.

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